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(1) How to Raise a Reader (??? ?? ???) by Pamela Paul & Maria Russo ???. ? ???? ??? ?? ??? ? ???? ?? ? ??? ???? ??? ????. ?????? ?? ?? ?? ? ?? ???? ??? ?????? ?????? ? ? ?? ?? ? ?? ??? ??? ???? ? ? ??? ??? ????? ?? ? ??? ???.

(2) ? ??(Paul Tough)? ?? ? ��How Children Succeed�� (?????? ???--��??? ??? ?????��)?? grit (??), curiosity (???), character (??) ??? ???.

(3) ??.??(Carol Dweck) ??? ??? ? ��Mindset�� (?????)?? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??(effort)? ????? ???. ????? ��??? ??�� ?? ? ??? ????.

? ??? ???? ???? ?? 50?? ?? ??? ???? ???? ??? ?? ??? ?? ???? ??? ????. ��Notes to Myself�� (????? ??? ??)??? Hugh Prather(? ???)? ? ????. ��??? ?? ??, ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? Hugh Prather(? ???)? ?? ??? ??? ????? ? ?? ?? ??? ?? ?? ? ?? ??? ??? ???��?? ???? ??? ?????. (There is a part of me that wants to write, a part that wants to teach.To force myself into a single role, to decide to be just one thing in life, would kill off large parts of me.)

Hugh Prather(? ???)? ��????? ?? ???? ??, ??? ??, ???? ?? ??? ????. ???? ?? ?? ????.�� (Life is a mixture of unsolved problems, ambiguous victories, and vague defeats with very few moments of clear peace.)?? ?????.

???? ?? ???? ???: When people criticize me, I am not any less because of that. It is not a criticism of me but critical thinking from them. They are expressing their thoughts and feelings, not my being. (?? ?? ?? ??? ?? ??? ???? ????? ??? ??? ???? ????? ???. ??? ???? ??? ??? ???? ??? ? ??? ???? ??? ???? ?? ????.)

I would not feel so criticized or complimented by people��s words but would be confident to judge their accuracy for myself. (???? ?? ????? ??? ?? ??? ?? ?? ??? ?? ??? ??? ?? ?? ???? ?? ???? ???? ???? ??.)

There is something about compliments that scare me. I put myself in the hands of other people if I let my emotions lean on their statements. (?? ?? ??? ? ??????. ?? ??? ?? ?? ?? ???? ?????.)

Hugh Prather? ��Notes to Myself�� ? ?? 30?? ?? ��Spiritual Notes to Myself��(??? ??? ??? ??)? ????. ?? ??? ????.

��When I am flexible and forgiving, I am happy. When I am rigid and righteous, I am unhappy.�� (?? ??? ?? ?? ??? ?? ?? ?????. ?? ???? ?? ?? ??? ??? ?? ?? ?????.)

??? ?? ?? ???? Hugh Prather? ? ? ?? ?? ???? ?? ? ?? ??? ??? ?????. ??? ??? ??? ???? ?? ??? ??? ???? ???? ????.

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